THE COMMUNITY

Get support that meets you wherever you are in your journey.

Here, things get a bit more personal.

Self Sabotage Slayers offers lots to read, watch, and explore on your own. The Community is where you can put what you’re learning about yourself into action.

You’ll find different spaces based on the support you want. Maybe you want to build a more accepting relationship with yourself, keep showing up and practicing what you’re learning, or dive deeper into understanding your patterns.

You’ll find conversations, prompts, challenges, resources, and deeper support. Most importantly, you’ll have a place to come back to when life feels overwhelming.

Some months, you’ll feel motivated.
Other months, you might feel tired.
Both are welcome here.

Reconnect with, understand and believe in yourself. Become your best you.

Which space feels right for you?

🤍Accept You

If you want to feel more comfortable and at ease with yourself.

This space focuses on self-acceptance, understanding yourself, and learning to work with who you are, rather than struggling against yourself.

This option is best for you if:
“I want to understand and accept myself more.”

Access to all 5 pattern spaces

 

Conversations and support centred on acceptance

 

A space to learn to accept and work with yourself

 
Free

🤍The Community Hub

If you want ongoing support while you put what you’re learning into practice.

This is the everyday home for Self Sabotage Slayers. Join in with weekly topics, bring them into your life, and share your experiences with people who get it.

”This option is best for you if:

“I want ongoing support, conversation and encouragement.

Access to everything in Accept You

 

Weekly discussion prompts

 

Community-only check-ins, conversations and encouragement

 

A growing collection of resources and tools that support the topic

 

Ongoing support to help you keep practicing, not just reading and moving on.

 

Member access to selected in-depth resources and workbooks

 
£4.99
/ month
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🤍Beyond Your Patterns

If you’re ready to go deeper.

Go beyond just recognizing your patterns. Start understanding what’s underneath them, how they connect, and what you can practice to change what happens next.

This option is best for you if:
“I don't just want to recognise my patterns. I want to understand them and work on them.”

Access to everything in Accept You and The Community Hub

 

Deeper weekly teaching videos

 

Pattern-specific tools and exercises

 

Member discounts on selected Self Sabotage Slayers resources

 
£9.99
/ month

Not sure where to start?

You don’t need to have everything figured out.
Have a look around and start with what feels useful to you.

Willow x

The experiences

Building a life that actually feels like yours.

Self Sabotage Slayers started with a question that kept coming back to me.

How many people live lives that seem fine on the surface but don’t really feel like their own?

As time goes on, we pick up expectations, responsibilities, and routines, but we don’t always pause to see if they still make sense for us. This isn’t about turning into someone else.

It’s about asking yourself:

What matters to me right now?
What have I outgrown?
What do I wish I had more of?
What would a life that truly feels like mine look like?

The experiences we offer help you dive into these questions, so you can start living a life that actually feels like your best and own. Whilst reconnecting and understanding yourself along the way.

Hear more from us

Every week I share reflections, encouragement, resources and thoughts from behind the scenes of Self Sabotage Slayers.

No spam.

No pressure.

Just real conversations about real life.

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